25 th anniversary wedding renewal vows We pledge: To share values and goals; To express clearly our needs to each other; To be sensitive to each other's feelings; To never let our differences divide us; To anticipate each other's needs; To accept each other wholly in love and honor; To never judge or condemn each other; To desire each other's happiness; To always be open, honest, and faithful to each other; To let kindness and gentleness direct our relations; To enjoy life together.